How to embrace Solitude

It’s not that difficult to tell yourself, “I’m not alone, I have myself.”

You have to remember that you have yourself. All the time.

Do we ever question ourself, “Why do I need someone else when I have myself?” 

You don’t really need anybody else. You need to love yourself and the way you are. You know what makes you happy, sad, excited or bored. What else do you need?

No one will love you unless you love yourself. 

No one will respect you unless you respect yourself. 

No one will be kind to you unless you are kind to yourself. 

Work hard but not to prove it to anyone but yourself.

Greatness need not be proved. It will be recognised by others 

Believe in YOU and the world will too!

You don’t need company for a movie, lunch, dinner or any outing if you are content with yourself. 

Don’t compromise for the sake of others. Today parents compromise for their children. Spouses compromise for their better half. 

Live a little for yourself as well, instead of sacrificing and compromising all your life. Sacrifice and compromises are a part of life but they should not allow you to lose your identity at any point of time.

The above will result in lack of confidence and a lack of interest in life.

Be yourself for yourself. 

Don’t try to please someone in exchange of yourself. 

Don’t try to compete with anyone but yourself. 

Don’t try to imitate any one as they are not you and you can not be replaced. 

Remember that you are equally important.

Have faith in yourself, love yourself. End this year with the best gift to you – YOU!